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KAAN 2010

The 2010 KAAN Conference will be held in Harrisburg, PA from July 23-25, 2010.  Our theme is The Road Ahead. This theme is relevant as Korea looks at closing international adoption, as racial discussions and perspectives continue to evolve in the United States, and as North Korea’s situation changes every day with questions of war, reunification, and human rights on the forefront. What wisdom can KAAN presenters and participants bring to these discussions? How can we listen and respond to each other and the world around us? How can we as a community support adoptees and adoptive parents of all ages?

We are currently selecting workshops from the proposals submitted.  We are consolidating our websites.    We will begin adding workshops to the website at they are selected and speakers are notified.    Check back often for updates at www.kaanet.com Click on 2010 Conference.  We expect to be open for registration in February.

A Euro-American on a Korean Tour at a Thai Restaurant in China : With each chapter examining issues that interethnic adoptive families experience, Chris Winston weaves her own perspective on her adoption experience with perspectives related to her by her own children, adopted adults, other adoptive parents, birth parents, Koreans, Korean Americans, and Asian Americans. While the book’s focus is on experiences with Korean adoption, the experiences are transferable to inter-ethnic adoptions from any country. Author's speaking engagements... Pushing Up the Sky : This is the story of a remarkable family facing incredible challenges of cancer while simultaneously figuring out how to weave their adopted children's Korean heritage and racial ethnicity into their family. It is a story of compromises and insights, profound joy, deep suffering, and terrific rewards. Parenting birth and adopted children — is one theme of this book. Most of all, it is a story on the meaning of family, and learning to let go of expectations and to forge a new identity. Author's speaking engagements...
Proceeds from book sales support the KAAN Conference. Purchase your copy at www.kaanet.com/books/
In This Issue:
As Palo Alto's Jeremy Lin leads his Harvard hoops squad toward victory, an Atlanta promoter launches an all-white basketball league, leading Jeff Yang to ponder the light and dark side of rooting for the race.  Read More: http://www.sfgate.com
The North Korean government sends its engineers to China to study reforms and free market. A sign of the fragility of the economic system of the regime, which fears total collapse. The trip was paid for by Seoul, which does not want to find 22 million poor people on its back.  Read More: http://www.speroforum.com
A 23-year-old Shin Suk-kyun was recently scolded at a private educational institute or hagwon for not doing his ``home assignment'' of approaching a woman in the street and obtaining her mobile phone number.  Read More: http://www.koreatimes.co.kr
The lucrative trade in newborns was fueled by an adoption frenzy that saw government-run orphanages paying for children who they then made available to Westerners.  Read More: http://www.latimes.com
Everybody knows what adoption is.  But we rarely see how adoption affects the people involved: adoptees, birthparents and adoptive parents in same race and transracial adoptions.  The 56 minute documentary Unlocking the Heart of Adoption explores the adoption experience from all three points-of-view of the adoption triad interwoven with fascinating historical background.  This groundbreaking film bridges the gap between birth and adoptive families revealing their innermost feelings, fears and joys.  Your can watch the 5 minute trailer and purchase the film on the website: http://www.unlockingtheheart.com.
Adopted reveals the grit rather than the glamor of transracial adoption. First-time director Barb Lee goes deep into the intimate lives of two well-meaning families and shows us the subtle challenges they face. One family is just beginning the process of adopting a baby from China and is filled with hope and possibility. The other family’s adopted Korean daughter is now 32 years old. Prompted by her adoptive mother’s terminal illness, she tries to create the bond they never had. The results are riveting, unpredictable and telling. While the two families are at opposite ends of the journey, their stories converge to show us that love isn’t always enough.  http://www.adoptedthemovie.com

A book for all cultures, What Will You Be, Sara Mee? celebrates siblings, community, and the blending of traditions as it tells the story of Sara Mee’s tol, the Korean first-birthday celebration. Food and presents abound, but most exciting of all is the traditional Korean prophecy game, called the toljabee, which predicts what Sara Mee will be when she grows up. 

Author Kate Aver Avraham writes with a deep knowledge and understanding of Korean culture and its first-birthday celebration tradition. Having adopted a child from Korea 25 years ago, What Will You Be, Sara Mee? is inspired by her own daughter’s tol.  Available through Charlesbridge http://www.charlesbridge.com

In 1982, Vincent Chin, a Chinese American man who lived in Detroit at the height of anti-Japanese sentiments, was murdered by two white autoworkers.  For the first time, Asian Americans around the country galvanzied to form a real community and movement -- and Chin's murder was the catalyst for this.  View Trailer: http://www.youtube.com

At the end of the KAAN Conference we had some left over KAAN Conference bags.  Karen Lim offered to take them and use them for an art project with kids in a Korean orphanage.   Wow did she follow through!  Beautiful dear precious children at SungNo Orphanage expressing their beautiful soul colors!  Take a look http://www.facebook.com
The third issue of Journal of Korean Adoption Studies focuses on
community as a significant project that Korean adoptees have been
engaged in building since the early 1980s. This... issue facilitates
opportunities to examinexamine struggles for community by
documenting previous models on which adoptees have relied to imagine
possible directions toward developing collective unity...

To download full CFP, visit: http://goal.or.kr See More

This is a great opportunity to learn Korean language at a prestigious University in South Korea.  InKAS provides Korean language scholarships to overseas Korean adoptees. In association with a grant from the Ministry for Health, Welfare, and Family Affairs, scholarship grantees can study at any of these language Institutes: Ewha Woman’s, Korea, Kyunghee, Seoul National, Sogang, Sookmyung and Yonsei University. Any overseas Korean adoptee over the age of 18 can invest a semester or more of studying Korean is qualified for the scholarships.

Application – Required documents 

- Application form

- One photocopy of adoption document with your Korean name

- One photocopy of your passport with passport number

- One photocopy of your high school graduation certificate

- One photo (3x4cm)

- One page of self-introduction

Application Dates

Starting from February 1st, first-come, first-served basis

*Only fully-completed application along with all the required documents after February 1st in Korean time will be accepted. Selections will be made entirely on a first-come, first-serve basis.  

*Please note that Sogang and Seoul National Univ. are not available for the Spring semester.

How to Apply

Sign-up through the InKAS website and go to the Korean Language Scholarship section:

Services -> Scholarship  -> InKAS Scholarship Program Request  (http://www.inkas.or.kr)

 

? Submit an application form on the page and upload all the required documents on “Mypage” 

*MyPage is on your right top after you log in.

Don't miss this opportunity to visit Korea.

Airfare and Room and Board are covered. (Korean Air only covers the airfare cost at departing Korean Air airports and tax &  fuel surcharges are not included.) 

  There is a registration fee of $150/   The program includeds Korean Culture Classes, Gatherings with Korean Volunteers and Field Trips.

To apply and for more information go to http://www.inkas.or.kr

A colleague of mine in Asian American Studies asked me to send this around:

Hi all,

Kelley Blomberg is working on a feature story for Hyphen on Asian American
adoptees who end up adopting Asian children of their own.

Kelley is looking to interview people who fall into this category.

She's already talked to adoption agencies but they're a little cagey about
releasing personal information. If you know of anyone who'd be willing to
speak with Kelley for her story, please e-mail her at
kblomberg@kearnswest.com.

Thanks much,

Pia

(Features Editor)

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Dear Fellow Korean Adoptee,

We are Korean adoptees, 32 and 35 years old, who've been Korea 2-3 times. After we returned from Korea last year we felt isolated. Displaced. Confused. Unable to ease back into our pre-Korea lives. We wondered if other adoptees felt the same way. More importantly, if they didn't, what had they done to prevent these sort of feelings from manifesting? What sort of foundations, behaviors, life circumstances did they have in place that enabled them to feel rooted and connected when they returned? And how could this information offer support to other adoptees?

This is why we've created this study. And this is where you come in.

We're looking for Korean adoptees who are:

* Currently 20 years or older
* Went to Korea at age 20 or older
* Went to Korea and RETURNED to pre-Korea life

We plan to develop the results into a presentation for the IKAA Gathering in Seoul this August. The application deadline is quickly approaching so we need your feedback ASAP! Click on the link below to begin. There are only 49 questions, and it should take 20-30 minutes.

http://www.kwiksurveys.com
Password is: imakad

Some of these questions might seem personal, but the more open and honest you can be the more helpful your responses will be for other adoptees. Please know that your responses are generated anonymously. And if you know anyone else interested in participating, please email us at 2curiouskads@gmail.com.

We need your help in getting this survey to Korean adoptees. We appreciate if you could forward this message to others who fit the criteria. If you belong to an adoptee group, it would be great if you could forward this to your members. If you prefer, please email us with a list of emails so that we can share this invitation to participate!

Thank you!

Rae Anne & Saebom
2curiouskads@gmail.com

KSEA and KUSCO are pleased to announce multiple scholarships for graduate($1,500 each) and undergraduate($1,000 each) students majoring in science, engineering, or related fields. The scholarships recognize outstanding students of Korean heritage who excel in academics as well as in service to the community, and have potential to become future leaders of society. Details are given online at http://scholarship.ksea.org . Potential recipients should apply by February 19, 2010.

The Asian Pacific Islanders for Professional and Community Advancement
(APCA) is seeking qualified applicants for its 2010 National APCA Scholarship
Program. Please forward this information to qualified seniors and encourage
them to apply. The application package is attached and can also be downloaded
from http://www.apca-att.org. Completed applications must be submitted in PDF
format to APCA@att.com by March 1, 2010 5PM PST. Non-PDF formatted documents
will not be accepted.

Applicants will be evaluated on the basis of their scholastic and personal
achievements, leadership, community involvement, work experience, a letter of
recommendation and personal essay. Seven $1,500 scholarships will be awarded.

If you have further questions or need additional information, please call
June Tom 415 499 4826 (national program lead) or e-mail us at APCA@att.com.

*Call For Papers*

Sixth Biennial St. John's University
Adoption Conference

*Open Arms, Open Minds:*

*The Ethics of Adoption in the 21st Century*
* October 14-16th 2010 *
(Thursday evening to Saturday afternoon)

We are pleased to invite professionals, researchers, scholars,
practitioners, and graduate students to submit papers and research
manuscripts that address issues likely to impact individuals and families
touched by adoption for the sixth, biennial adoption conference at St.
John’s University. Our first conference in 2000 was entitled, “The Adoption
Journey: Psychological, Socio-Political, and Legal Challenges”; the second
conference in 2002 focused on “The Lifelong Adoption Journey: Through the
Eyes of the Adopted”; the 2004 conference was entitled, “The Dynamics of
Adoption: A Three-Way Mirror;” the 2006 conference focused on “Families
Without Borders? Adoption Across Culture and Race”; and the 2008 conference
was entitled “Identity and the Adopted Teen: Surviving the Crucible of
Adolescence.” In keeping with our goal to create conferences that address
adoption themes relevant to the training of mental health professionals as
well as to the personal growth and understanding of adoption triad members
themselves, our sixth conference will focus on issues related to ethics of
adoption in the 21st century.

The 2010 conference theme will highlight emerging changes in the practice of
adoption since the start of the new century. The topics should include
consideration of *ethics* and also address *openness* (or the lack thereof)
in adoption. Thus topics might include discussions of search and reunion,
third party reproduction adoption and openness to contact with donors and
surrogates, GLBT adoptees and/or parents, contact between foster care
providers and adoptive families, and clinical issues with various members of
the triad, open records legislation and adoption reform, the Hague
Convention and changes in international adoption, etc.

*EXAMPLES* for papers and sessions:

v Challenges to creating openness in international and/or transracial
adoption

v Identity formation in an open versus closed adoption

v Kinship care and the openness of birth relatives to kinship adoption

v Maintaining or creating more openness between foster care families and
adoptive families

v Considerations of openness among siblings when one child is adopted
and biological siblings remain with birth parents or stay in foster care

v Adoption in a GLBT context (e.g., whether the individual is adopted by
a gay/lesbian parent or whether the biological parents may be GLBT, or
whether the adopted person identifies as GLBT)

v The ethics of “fees for service” and the role of money in
international adoption

v Issues of search and reunion and how these issues influence openness
in adoption

v Nature vs. nurture in the adopted self identity

v How contact between birth and adoptive families may change over time
(e.g., from greater or lesser degrees of openness)

v Treatment and assessment issues with adoptive families, adoptees, and
birth families

v Opening the triad to include non-adopted children in adoptive
families, siblings still in foster care, and others not traditionally
included in the triad

v Openness of parents to diversity and multiculturalism in the context
of transracial and transnational adoption

v Innovations in clinical practice, social work, and pre/post adoption
practice

*We are seeking presentations, papers, research posters, and workshops.*

Guidelines on Time Allotted for different formats:

Papers/Presentations: 20 to 45 minutes

Workshops: 90 minutes

Include the following information in your submission proposal:

1. Primary Author/Presenter and Affiliation(s)

2. Contact Information for Primary Author/Presenter (e.g., address,
phone, email)

3. Co-Presenter(s) and Affiliation(s)

4. Contact Information for Co-Presenter(s) (e.g., address, phone,
email)

5. Title of Presentation/Paper/Poster/Workshop

6. Format: Presentation, Paper, Research Poster, or Workshop

7. Goals (list 3-4)

8. Content Description of the Presentation (600 words or less)

9. Intended Audience

10. Summary for Brochure (50 words or less)

11. Curriculum Vitae/ Resumes for all presenters

12. Statement on Originality of Presentation (Has this
workshop/presentation been presented prior to this conference? If so, when?
Where? How many times?)

13. Review of Required Documentation Form (see following page)

Submit proposal *electronically* *NO LATER THAN **MARCH 1, 2010 *to *
adoptioninitiative@gmail.com*

“How much did I cost?”
“Why didn’t my birthmother keep me?”
“Will I every get to meet my birthfamily?”
“Did my birthmother love me?”
“Why did you adopt me?”

Have you thought about how you will respond when your child asks such questions? Because adopted children will hang on every word you say in response to these very delicate questions, it is important for adoptive parents to be prepared. A child’s ability to confidently handle questions about adoption will depend on your responses to his or her questions. How you talk with your children about adoption is critical to their forming healthy attitudes.

This workshop will give you the tools to:

  • Share your child’s adoption story with them.
  • Make the information age appropriate.
  • Learn what tools are available, including lifestory books, movies, and books.

This workshop is appropriate for adoptive parents, waiting parents, and professionals.

Details
Instructor(s): Astrid Dabbeni
When: January 30th 2010
Where: TBA in Portland, Oregon
Cost: $60 per person, $90 per couple
To register go to: http://www.adoptionmosaic.org

Pictures along with age appropriate journaling provide an important connection for children to their unique history of the way they joined their adoptive family. Regardless of the type or amount of background information you have about your child before he or she came to you, it will be essential to create an appropriate record.

Learn about:

  • The importance of having these tools
  • Where to start
  • Dos and don’ts
  • How to make the information age-appropriate
  • Much more

This training offers assistance to people who want to either begin creating such a tool or who want to more fully develop an existing one.

Comments from past participants:

  • This class really helped clarify the difference between a scrapbook and a life book, and what is involved in creating a book that is helpful, supportive and meaningful to our child.
  • It was especially valuable to have the class taught by an adoptee who could emphasize personal experience and how that relates to life history.
  • This class gave me more tools for talking to my daughter about her life story.

Details
Instructor(s): Astrid Dabbeni
When:  January 30th 2010
Where: Portland, Oregon
Sponsored by Northwest Adoptive Families Association (NAFA). For more information and to register, contact Andrea at akfeltham@comcast.net.

In 1982, Vincent Chin, a Chinese American man who lived in Detroit at the height of anti-Japanese sentiments, was murdered by two white autoworkers.

For the first time, Asian Americans around the country galvanzied to form a real community and movement -- and Chin's murder was the catalyst for this.

Join us to view the new documentary about this case and learn about the response that continues to this day. The film is 40 minutes long.

View Trailer  

Vincent Who? 2010 Spring College Tour

Jan 25 - Colorado State University
Jan 26 - University of Colorado at Boulder
Jan 27 - University of Denver

Feb 4 - DeAnza
Feb 6 - UN-Reno
Feb 11 - Stonybrook
Feb 12 - Rutgers
Feb 19 - University of Texas at Austin, Brecha Conference
Feb 20 - Pitt
Feb 23 - Grand Valley State
Feb 24 - University of Kansas
Feb 25 - Wichita State
** any schools in the Chicago area available on the 26 or 27th?
Feb 28 - Northbrook Public Library (Chicago)

March 1 - UW - Green Bay
March 2 - Marquette University
March 3 - UW - Madison
March 4 - UW - Milwaukee
March 5/6 - UPenn (ECAASU)
** any schools in the East Coast available on March 8th-12th?
March 12 - APANO (Oregon) screening
March 13 - APANO (Oregon) workshops
March 17 - Vanderbilt
March 18 - Austin Peay
** any schools in the Southeast available on March 19th?
March 24 - March 31 - Tour of MN (details to come)

** any schools available first week of April
April 6 - William and Jefferson
April 7 - Lehigh
April 12: The University of Dayton
April 13: Wittenberg University
April 14: Wright State University
April 14: California State University at Northridge (speaker: Preeti Kulkarni)
April 15: Kent State University
** any schools in New England available April 19-21
April 22 - University of New Hampshire
** any schools in New England available April 23
** any schools available after April 24

More information?  Contact curtis@apaforprogress.org

 

 

The 2010 season of The Korea Society's Classic Movie Night series will begin on Wednesday, January 20. To commemorate the sixtieth anniversary of the outbreak of the Korean War in 1950, The Korea Society has selected a schedule of classics that examine the conflict, and the deep, sometimes unexpected scars it has left on the Korean people.

Beginning with Man With Three Coffins on January 20, and continuing with Last Witness (February 17) and Crossing (March 17), this season's classic films will examine how, even 60 years on, the effects of the War continue to haunt communities, divide families and fracture Koreans' sense of identity. Each film will be followed by a guest speaker who will discuss its artistic and cultural context.

Classic Movie Night 2010

Facing the War: Six Decades of Film Since the Korean War

Monthly Screenings

Wednesday, January 20 at 6:30 PM

Man With Three Coffins
Directed by Lee Jang-ho
Starring Kim Myung-gon and Lee Bo-hee
1987, 128 minutes

As a man travels to his deceased wife's hometown near the demilitarized zone to scatter her ashes, he finds himself enmeshed in the lives of several strangers, each of whom is on their own journey to overcome the borders, physical and psychological, that have been erected by the War. Based on the award-winning short story by Lee Je-ha titled “Travelers Do Not Rest on the Road,” The Man With Three Coffins is a deeply personal and imaginative exploration of the War’s divisions that earned plaudits from the Berlin and Tokyo International Film Festivals in 1988.

Guest Speaker: Henry H. Em, associate professor of East Asian studies, New York University

February 17, 2010 at 6:30 PM

Last Witness
Directed by Lee Doo-yong
Starring Choi Bool-am, Han Hye-sook, Hah Myung-joong and Jeong yun-hui
1980, 158 minutes

Detective Oh Byeong-ho investigates a murder at a local brewery and uncovers the secret history of violence, and tragedy, between the communist guerrillas and right-wing militias that fought in the area during the Korean War. The film’s exploration of communism made it controversial in South Korea during the 1980s. Government censors cut 40 minutes from the theatrical release.

Guest Speaker (via video interview): Cho Jun-hyoung, researcher, Korean Film Archive; Lee Sang-joon, adjunct professor of cinema studies, New York University

March 17, 2010 at 6:00 PM

Crossing
Directed by Kim Tae-gyun
Starring Cha In-pyo and Shin Myoung-cheol
2008, 112 minutes

Crossing eloquently expresses the emotional trauma of political division. Yong-soo escapes the grinding poverty of North Korea to China, hoping to find medicine for his pregnant wife, but ends up in South Korea, separated from his family forever. Years later,  Yong-soo's orphaned son in North Korea makes the same escape, hoping to find the father he never knew.

Guest Speaker: Deborah Choi, refugee from North Korea

Tickets to each screening are available for $5 (members) or $10 (nonmembers). For more information contact Yuni Cho at (212) 759-7525, ext. 323 or email yuni.ny@koreasociety.org

The Korea Society
950 Third Avenue @ 57th Street, 8th Floor
(Building entrance on SW corner of Third Avenue and 57th Street)

Annual Lunar New Year Celebration February 6th

Ring in the Year of the Tiger at the annual Korean Focus - KUMCGW Lunar New Year Celebration!  Check back for more information, but be sure to save the date!

Date & Time:  Saturday, February 6, 2010 - 1 - 4 PM Location:  Korean United Methodist Church of Greater Washington, 1219 Swinks Mill Road, McLean, Virginia   Enjoy Korean crafts and games for kids and adults, Korean cooking lessons, performances of traditional and modern Korean music, plus lots of time to catch up with old friends and to make new ones.  There are lots of new items in our craft sale, too - it will be available for shopping throughout the event.    The Korean Focus - KUMCGW Annual Lunar New Year Celebration is a great way to welcome the new year.  See you there!
Where & When:

Kaiser Oakland Medical Center Fabiola Building, Room #65B 3801 Howe Street Oakland, California

February 6, 2010 9:00am - 12:30pm

Description:
Parenting an adopted child is both the "same as" and incredibly "different than" parenting a child born to you. We will address specific parenting theories and their usefulness and applicability to adoptive family life focusing on positive methods for discipline that are effective.

We will explore practical strategies for issues like celebrating birthdays, planning vacations, changing schools, moving, divorce, graduation, rites of passage, holidays, adding or losing family members, and other normal life events that have special resonance for adoptive families. Audience participation will be encouraged with an emphasis on exploring specific family concerns.

Guest Speaker:
Lisa Kelly, adult adoptee and Early Childhood Development student and teacher at Mills College Children's School. She will be presenting her work on "The Importance and Use of Positive Parenting Strategies."

To register go to: http://www.pactadopt.org

Mark your calendar for Sunday afternoon, Feb 7, 2010 to celebrate Lunar New Year with Friends of Korea families.  Details to come later.

GOALS

  • Let kids meet and have fun together.
  • Get more involved with Pact and other families like yours.
  • Connect with other adoptive families.

      WHEN
      February 7th, 2010
      2:00 pm until 4:00 pm

      WHERE
      Kennedy Park
      19501 Hesperian Blvd
      Hayward, CA 94541
      (We'll be gathering by the big Pact banner!)

      NOTES
      There are playgrounds and then there are also rides kids can go on too. Below are location and prices.

      Ticket Prices
      Pony Ride $1.75
      Train Ride $1.50
      Merry-Go-Round $1.50
      Bounce*$1.50
      Triple Pines Ranch $1.50

      Special Discount Tickets
      For Train, Bounce, Triple Pines Ranch or Merry-Go-Round only.
      $4.00 good for 3-$1.50 tickets (single ticket)
      Package A: $30.00 good for 25-$1.50 tickets (single ticket)
      Package B $100.00 good for 100-$1.50 tickets (separate tickets)


      ***Event will be canceled if pouring down rain but not if sprinkling with a chance of clearing.

      If you have questions feel free to contact our volunteer coordinator:
      Tara Geer-Leiker by cell: 510-371-3151 or email: tgeer4@yahoo.com

    • Ta-ri SolNal (Lunar New Year) Party-New Cumberland-February 13

      Saturday, February 13

      2:00-4:00PM

      Foundation Hall, New Cumberland Public Library

      1 Benjamin Plaza, New Cumberland, PA 17070

      Library directions: 717.774-7820 (call for navigation help only)

      Free admission ... donations accepted.

       

      Join us to celebrate the Lunar New Year, central-Pennsylvania Korean-style!

      This year's program includes:

      2:00       Food, conversation, and games

      2:30       Announcements

                      Talent show **

      3:30       More conversation and games (yutnori, storytelling, favorite
      Board games ...)

      4:00       Departure

       

      ** Our family-friendly talent show has become a tradition all its own. Last
      year's performers included singers, violinist, and tae kwon do student.
      Children and adults are invited to share a talent. Please sign up by
      February 1 if possible.

       

      All are encouraged to bring favorite snacks and Board games to share before
      and after the talent show.

      If you would like to volunteer for this event, please let us know!

       

      RSVP and sign up for the talent show by February 13 at info@ta-ri.org or
      (717) 574-3629.

      We will email all registrants should wintry weather affect plans. 

       

      Hi everyone and happy New Year. 

      Vermont Korean United Methodist Church is inviting your family to join Korean Lunar New Year  “Dduk Guk Luncheon” prepared by the KAUMC Women’s Group and the Green Mountain Korean Culture School.  Dduk Guk is rice cake noodle soup that all Korean enjoy on the 1st day of New Year in lunar calendar, which is on 2/14 this year.  In celebration of this traditional holiday, your children are welcome to wear their hanboks.  This will be a great celebration with family and friends. 

      Please join our Sunday Worship at 12:30pm followed by Luncheon at 2:00pm.  

      Date:               Sunday, February 14, 2010 “Year of Tiger”
      Time:               12:30  Sunday Service
                             2:00  Dduk Guk Luncheon 

      Location:        130 Maple Street, Essex Junction, VT 05452

       

      ** Please R.S.V.P by 1/31/10 as to how many members of your family will be joining.

       

      We look forward to seeing you Lunar New Year!

       

      Kirsten Wilkins
      863-8063
      343-8828
      kwrdh@comcast.net

               

      Host: MG Worley 
      Location: Newcastle United Methodist Church, 410 Buena Vista Ave, Newcastle, CA 95658 US
      When: Sunday, February 21, 2:00PM to 4:00PM
      Phone: (916)759-3495

      Activity:  Traditional Korean Bowing

      Game/craft:   Yoot Nori & small craft.

      What to bring: 
      1.  Potluck item, sign up for what you will bring when you RSVP.  
      2.  Adult and childrens handboks.  Extra's handboks available for use. 
      3.  Several white envelopes w/ your childs name printed on the front & $1.00 inside of each. 


      From Sacramento: 
      Go east on I-80 heading toward Reno. 
      Take exit #115 Newcastle Rd/Indian Hills Road.  

      Date: Sunday February 21, 2010
      Time: 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m
      Place: St. Mary's Church, Route 34 (North Bound side) and Phalanx Road,
      Colt's Neck, New Jersey
      Fee: $90 per family includes the W.I.S.E. Up! Powerbook
      **Bring your own bag lunch**
      Workshop facilitated by
      Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center www.iaccenter.com and Sponsored by Monmouth/Ocean County Adoptive Families Support Group, LLC

      This workshop is for pre-adoptive and adoptive parents, as well as adopted children ages 6-11.

      Did you know nearly every adopted child is asked questions about their adoption? For children in trans-racial families, they may also be asked questions about their race. This may start as early as age 3 with: "Why don't you look like your mom?” For others, it may not begin until ages 6, 7 or even 8 with: “Why were you adopted?” or “Where is your real mother?”
      Now you can empower your child with W.I.S.E. Up! The nationally recognized tool developed by C.A.S.E. to help parents just like you empower their children to handle comments and questions; and to decide the most comfortable ways to communicate about their adoption story with others.  The workshop is facilitated by IAC Center Counselors with adult adoptees as assistants. The format includes separate and joint sessions for parent and for children groups. In this workshop parents and children will learn:

      • A common language to use in communicating about these issues within the family
      • Strategies and tools to deal effectively with difficult adoption-related situations
      • To feel empowered when confronted with inappropriate comments and questions

      Session 1:
      Time: 1:00 to 2:45 p.m.
      Parents will meet with one IAC Center Counselor while children meet with a second IAC Center Counselor.  Adults who were adopted will assist with the children's group.

      Each group will identify difficult situations and learn the W.I.S.E. Up tools and strategies for dealing with them.

      Session 2:

      Time:
      2:45 to 3:15 A Demonstration of WISE Up tools

      Session 3:

      Time: 3:15 to 4:00 p.m. Adult Adoptee Panel for parents while children play games

      Seating is limited.  Pre-registration is required and should be completed at least one week prior to the event. Payment must be received in order to confirm your registration. Cancellations must be received at least three days prior to the event.

      For additional information:
      Phone 609-737-8750, or E-mail: info@iaccenter.com

       
      Registration is now open for the MFCAA and WCUMC Adoption Resource
      Foundation's Nancy Thomas Symposium on Reactive Attachment Disorder. Children in,
      or adopted from, foster care, and children who've been adopted from
      congregate care situations have suffered multiple and complex traumas. Working
      with, teaching,and parenting these children is a unique challenge.

      Come hear Nancy Thomas, author and renowned national parenting expert, as
      she provides funny, practical, real life information, skills and resources
      for parents, therapists, social workers, teachers and other professionals.

      Place: Woods Chapel United Methodist Church
      4725 NE Lakewood Way
      Lee's Summit, MO 64064

      Dates: February 22 and 23rd, 2010
      9AM-4PM
      *lunch will be provided
      *full and partial scholarships are available

      For more information or to register online please visit:
      http://www.mfcaa.org
      Or call: 816-350-0215

      Mar. 1, 2010, 7 to 9 p.m.
      This lecture will focus on the historical perspective of meeting the needs of developmentally disabled children, as well as the impact of The Child Who Never Grew, written by Pearl Buck based on her personal experience.

      To register go to http://www.psbi.org

      Date: Sunday February 21, 2010
      Time: 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m
      Place: St. Mary's Church, Route 34 (North Bound side) and Phalanx Road,
      Colt's Neck, New Jersey
      Fee: $90 per family includes the W.I.S.E. Up! Powerbook
      **Bring your own bag lunch**
      Workshop facilitated by
      Infertility and Adoption Counseling Center www.iaccenter.com and Sponsored by Monmouth/Ocean County Adoptive Families Support Group, LLC

      This workshop is for pre-adoptive and adoptive parents, as well as adopted children ages 6-11.

      Did you know nearly every adopted child is asked questions about their adoption? For children in trans-racial families, they may also be asked questions about their race. This may start as early as age 3 with: "Why don't you look like your mom?” For others, it may not begin until ages 6, 7 or even 8 with: “Why were you adopted?” or “Where is your real mother?”
      Now you can empower your child with W.I.S.E. Up! The nationally recognized tool developed by C.A.S.E. to help parents just like you empower their children to handle comments and questions; and to decide the most comfortable ways to communicate about their adoption story with others.  The workshop is facilitated by IAC Center Counselors with adult adoptees as assistants. The format includes separate and joint sessions for parent and for children groups. In this workshop parents and children will learn:

      • A common language to use in communicating about these issues within the family
      • Strategies and tools to deal effectively with difficult adoption-related situations
      • To feel empowered when confronted with inappropriate comments and questions

      Session 1:
      Time: 1:00 to 2:45 p.m.
      Parents will meet with one IAC Center Counselor while children meet with a second IAC Center Counselor.  Adults who were adopted will assist with the children's group.

      Each group will identify difficult situations and learn the W.I.S.E. Up tools and strategies for dealing with them.

      Session 2:

      Time:
      2:45 to 3:15 A Demonstration of WISE Up tools

      Session 3:

      Time: 3:15 to 4:00 p.m. Adult Adoptee Panel for parents while children play games

      Seating is limited.  Pre-registration is required and should be completed at least one week prior to the event. Payment must be received in order to confirm your registration. Cancellations must be received at least three days prior to the event.

      For additional information:
      Phone 609-737-8750, or E-mail: info@iaccenter.com

       

      AMERICAN ADOPTION CONGRESS

      In Conjunction with PACER (Post Adoption Center for Education and
      Research) OF NORTHERN CALIFORNIA

      Present:

      The 2010 SPRING CONFERENCE: MARCH 18 through MARCH 21, 2010

      VOICES OF ADOPTION

      SPEAKING OUR TRUTH, RESTORING OUR RIGHTS

      Where:
      SHERATON GRAND SACRAMENTO
      1230 J Street
      Sacramento, California, 95814
      (916) 447-1700

      Conference Chair: Donnie Davis - pdj27@aol.com

      **If you are interested in presenting/conducting a workshop at the
      Spring Conference, please email Donnie a request no later than October
      31, 2009.**

      Keep checking our website at www.AmericanAdoptionCongress.org
        for conference updates and registration details.
      Hope to see you all there!

      The Adoption Community of New England, Inc. (ACONE) will present its 37th New England Adoption Conference Saturday, April 17, 2010 at Bellingham High School in Bellingham, Massachusetts. This annual gathering has become the largest such event in the nation, attracting all members of the adoption triad -- adoptive families, birth families, and adopted individuals -- as well as adoption professionals from all reaches of New England and beyond.

      Debbie B. Riley M.S. will deliver the keynote address with the theme for 2010 being Identity in Adoption: Glimpses Beneath the Masks. "ACONE is thrilled to have Debbie Riley as our keynote speaker given the depth of her experience as well as her clinical expertise," says Bonney Cashin, Co-President of the Board of Directors for ACONE. A dynamic speaker, Ms. Riley has a wealth of experience in the field of foster care and adoption, particularly with adolescents. She is the executive director of the Center for Adoption Support and Education, Inc. (C.A.S.E.), a non-profit organization in Maryland providing post-adoption services to families, educators, and adoption professionals. In 200_ Ms. Riley and John Meeks Ph.D. coauthored Beneath the Mask – Understanding Adopted Teens. Forging an identity is a critical task for adolescents, and it can sometimes be complicated for adolescents who are in foster care or who were adopted.

      The New England Adoption Conference regularly offers over 85 workshops on an array of topics for adoptive parents, those considering adoption as a way to build their families, birthparents, adopted persons, extended family, and professionals.

      www.AdoptionCommunityofNE.org

      Wide Horizons for Children’s 26th Annual Korean Culture Camp, Marlborough, MA

      Saturday, April 24, 2010

      (for families with children in Kindergarten & up)

      Join us from 9:30-3:30 for a cultural & educational experience for adoptive families with children from Korea.  Event includes traditional dance performances, sessions for children, teens, and parents, cultural marketplace of vendors, meet families of similar heritage & Korean lunch is included in admission.  Pre-registration is strongly encouraged as event sells out early.  E-mail Cherry Fenton at cfenton@whfc.org or for more information, please click on: http://www.whfc.org.

      Adoption: Secret Histories, Public Policies
      Alliance for the Study of Adoption and Culture 3rd international conference, 2010

      The Alliance for the Study of Adoption and Culture officially adopted a constitution in 1998, under the name The Alliance for the Study of Adoption, Identity, and Kinship.  We seek to promote understanding of the experience and institution of adoption in relation to literature, history, philosophy, anthropology, law, political theory, cultural studies, and other humanistic disciplines, and to provide a forum for the presentation and discussion of artistic creation dealing with adoption and related issues in poetry, fiction, memoir, film and other disciplines.  We have arranged two international conferences, and publish the journal Adoption and Culture and an annual newsletter.
      Adoption and Culture: Interdisciplinary Journal of the Alliance for the Study of Adoption and Culture

      http://web.me.com

      Longwood Gardens

      PO Box 501 Kennett Square, PA 19348

      www.longwoodgardens.org

      Tickets $40 from www.ticketphiladelphia.org or (215) 893-1999

       

      Born in Seoul, Korea, and educated at Juilliard in NYC, the members of the Ahn Trio are redefining the art and architecture of chamber music, breathing new life into the standard piano trio literature with commissioned works from visionary composers. The trio’s latest CD reached #8 on the Billboard charts. Possessing an enviable combination of talent and style, they have gone on to frequent fashion pages of Vogue and GQ and in 2003 were named three of People Magazine’s 50 Most Beautiful People.

      Airfare and Room and Board are covered.   There is a registration fee of $150/   The program includeds Korean Culture Classes, Gatherings with Korean Volunteers and Field Trips.

      To apply and for more information go to http://www.inkas.or.kr

      Forever Families Weekend – for Jewish Families Touched by Adoption June 11-13, 2010 at Camp Nah-Jee-Wah in Milford, PA


      The  Adoption Connection at Jewish Family Services of Greenwich in conjunction with the NJ Y Camps has opened registration for the second annual Forever Families Weekend, a family weekend experience for Jewish families touched by adoption.  The program will run from June 11-13, 2010.

      Families will have the opportunity to think consciously about their roles in both the Jewish community and the adoption community while enjoying a weekend at one of the largest Jewish summer camps in North America.  Since 1960, the Center for Jewish Family Life at the NJ Y Camps has provided top-rated programs for people looking for family fun and the chance to meet new people.

      Parents will have the option to participate in workshops such as Children’s Books and Stories of Adoption,Identity Issues for Adoptees Approaching Bar/Bat Mitzvah, and Acceptance of Transracial Families in the Jewish Community, while their children participate in age-appropriate activities such as “W.I.S.E. Up workshops” or “Teen Adoptees Advocating for Adoption.”  Adoption-specific workshops will be facilitated by Adoption Connection Director Steve Baranowski and Program Coordinator Debbie Schwartz, along with other adoption professionals who will share their experiences as Jewish parents by adoption, including Lisa Schuman, LCSW, director of Adoption Cooperative Consultants and staff psychotherapist for Reproductive Medicine Associates of New York, Maris Blechner, LCSW, Executive Director of Family Focus Adoption Services in Little Neck, NY, and Allison Stearns, LCPC, MPH,  Deputy Director of The Center for Adoption Support & Education in Maryland.  Rabbi Lina Zerbarini, Director of Operations at the Joseph Slifka Center for Jewish Life at Yale, will also be participating in the weekend program.

      NJ Y Camps, which has been running Jewish summer camps in Pennsylvania for more than 80 years, will provide space and programming support.  Participants will be able to take full advantage of the NJY facilities, including the high and low ropes adventure courses, boating, swimming, arts and crafts, athletics, and much more.  All meals at the camp are kosher; Shabbat services will be offered on Friday evening and Saturday morning.  Forever Families Weekend will take place at Camp Nah-Jee-Wah in Milford, Pennsylvania.

      For more information about this program, or to receive Forever Families literature, please contact Debbie Schwartz at (203) 622-1881 or dschwartz@jfsgreenwich.org

      A downloadable flyer describing the program can be found at http://www.jfsgreenwich.org.  The camp webpage is located at http://njycamps.org.

      We are very excited that the Smithsonian Center for Folklife and Cultural Heritage has chosen to highlight Asian Pacific Americans as one of the three themes for the 2010 Folklife Festival. The Festival, which will be held from June 23 through July 5, 2010, will be the 44th time that the Smithsonian has held this annual event on the National Mall. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for us to showcase APAs from the metropolitan DC area as a microcosm of the more than 12 million APAs in the United States.

      The Folklife Festival is considered the premiere annual event in Washington and is attended by many lawmakers, opinion leaders, business leaders, and their families. Each year, about 1.5 million people attend the Festival, 6 million visit the website, and 40 million hear of it through national and international media coverage.

       

      Contact: Curator of the Smithsonian Folklife Festival's 2010 Program on Asian Pacific Americans, Phil Nash, at p.nash@nashinteractive.com or 301.263.0217.

      ASIA, Inc.  would like to invite you to our 1st  annual family/teen camps.  This year’s theme will be ‘rice.’  Rice is a food item that is loved by both Koreans and Americans on a daily basis and it is served with almost every single meal in Korea.  Rice can be a source of many creative Korean dishes –bibimbop, kimbop, bokeumbop, etc.  We will be learning about the wonderful Korean culture by exploring around rice

      Who should consider coming?

      All adoptive families with Korean children of all ages and their siblings are welcome to participate.  We are planning two separate camps –family camp and teen camp, in the same camp site.  There will be enough space to accommodate the first 26 families at the ASIA Family Camp and 35 or more teen campers at the teen camp.  There will be nursery programs for infants and toddlers, as well as programs for school-age children, and adults. Special attention will be given to birth children and children from countries other than Korea. Our Teen Camp will be operated in the same facility but in a different section of the retreat center.  While adults and younger children stay in a hotel style room with their parents, teen campers will stay one night outdoors in tents and two nights in a cottage with counselors.  Contact Grace Song for registration info at hwakangsong@gmail.com  

      Accommodations and location

      The Meadowkirk Camp and Retreat Center is a beautiful facility which attracts private parties and wedding ceremonies throughout the year.  It is located in Middleburg, VA approximately 40 miles west of Washington DC.   All accommodations are newly built hotel style rooms with a full bed, an extended length twin bed, and a private bath.  One or two small people can sleep in their sleeping bags in the same room with their parents.   Teen campers will be sharing rooms with other teen campers.  Please notice that during the first night teen campers will be sleeping outdoors in tents. They will move into cottages and sleep on bunk beds for the second and third nights.    Families who live close by Middleburg could commute to the camp.  For more information about our camp facility visit http://www.meadowkirk.org .   

      The town of Middleburg is known for fox hunting and steeple chasing. The charming village has earned a reputation as the "Nation's Horse and Hunt Capital," attracting prominent visitors from across the United States. Serving as a host community for more than 250 years, it is no surprise that Middleburg has developed such a high concentration of fine inns, shops and restaurants.   Middleburg was recognized in 2008 for its historic preservation efforts by being designated a Preserve America Community by then-First Lady Laura Bush.   Read more about Middleburg at http://www.middleburg.org

       

      Schedule  and Program

       Check-in will begin at 3 p.m. on Thursday.  Check out will begin at 12:00 noon on Sunday.  We will be selling Korean items at our camp store to benefit ASIA Culture Camp.   We will be asking each family to give one hour of their time to serve a camp program. Once we have final list of campers, we will be providing you with a signup sheet with a list of areas where we need parent volunteers.  

      Camp counselors

      If you would like to volunteer as a group leader for children or teens, you will have to be at least 18 or older and be able to pass a background check.  Each applicant will need to submit an application by June 15th, 2010.  There is no compensation for the counselors and you will be responsible for your own transportation to and from the camp location.  ASIA will provide free lodging and food during your stay at the camp.  Camp counselors can be Korean adoptees, Korean Americans and non-adoptees or non-Koreans.  Contact Grace Song for an application form at hwakangsong@gmail.com.  

      Registration Fee

      The full camp registration fee includes all hotel style accommodations, three continental breakfasts, two Korean lunches, one sandwich dinner for Thursday evening, two buffet style dinners, camp t-shirt, snacks and camp programs.

      *$265 per adult, child (3 and over) , or teen

      *$50 discount per 4th, 5th or 6th camper who is older than 3. 

      *$100 fee per camp baby who is using daycare

      *$200 per daycamper who does not require lodging.

        It is recommended that your teenager stay with their counselors for most of the time during the camp if your whole family participates in the family camp.  Parents of teens will have a chance to be briefed about their achievements before the end of the camp.   

      KAAN's MISSION is: To Support Networking And Build Understanding Among Adoptees, Adoptive Families, Koreans  And Korean Americans. Visit KAAN's website at http://www.kaanet.com/ .

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