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Reviewed by Allison Branscombe
Brothers and Sisters in Adoption by Arleta James is aimed at parents, as well as pediatricians and adoption and mental health professionals. Written clearly in layperson’s language, this
tour de force book covers an unprecedented range of issues. Despite the title’s emphasis on siblings, this book is actually a great resource for all adoptive parents, whether they have several
children or only one—especially if they are parenting a child with special needs. With heart, it addresses all the “tough” issues and treats the whole family, a rarity in adoption literature.
One of James’ major themes is expectations: those of adoptive parents and adoptees’ siblings. She explores how parents’ expectations impact their emotions, their parenting style, and of course,
what they communicate to their children. As the parent of two kids adopted as infants from China, I would have found this book extremely helpful when our second child arrived. My expectations
for how long it would take to transition to our new family of four were seriously unrealistic, and all of us would have benefited from more information on sibling relationship issues.
James explains the many consequences of cognitive dissonance: when expectations conflict with the experiences of adoptive parents, resident siblings, and adoptees. Depending on
how acute the conflict is, acting-out behaviors can ensue, along with feelings of guilt and loss. She emphasizes communicating realistic expectations among parents (and grandparents or other family caregivers),
as well as with all the children. She offers a “Model of Care for Adoptive Families” to address the stress, grief and loss all adoptive families experience, and help mobilize them to act and
talk in constructive, healthy ways.
One of James’ many great suggestions is creating opportunities for waiting siblings to attend pre-adoption panels with articulate, mature siblings who have already experienced the arrival and integration
of adoptees into their families and, if applicable, have experience with special need siblings. The experienced sibs can talk to the waiting siblings about coping skills, expressing feelings, and
dealing with sibs’ immature or oppositional behaviors. They can also be used as an ongoing support group. While agencies routinely use pre-adopt panels for waiting parents, they are rarely
available for siblings.
When adoptees enter families, it is not uncommon for the existing children to be jealous of the time and attention the new children need. The resident children may feel guilty about having negative
feelings towards their new siblings, especially if the parents have talked about the adoption in longing, glowing terms. James shows how parents may unwittingly contribute to the problem when they
admonish siblings to make the new adoptee feel welcome and feel empathy for the adoptee’s previous tough life – and gives strategies to minimize this.
After adoption, children often regress. James advises how to parent at the child’s “actual” social and emotional age. She addresses building narratives for each child’s lifebook, acquiring
effective coping skills for each person in the family, learning to let adoptees think for themselves (and not be over-managed), the importance of play and family recreation, how to “listen” to kids’ behaviors,
and how the needs of typically-developing siblings and adoptees can create conflict.
The needs of parents are addressed at length, including how to balance their needs as individuals and as a couple with parenting each child. James deals with exhaustion, stress, and the depletion
of coping skills, especially when more than one member of the family has medical/therapy appointments that steal from parenting and couple time. Breaking promises to normally- developing children
to deal with upheavals caused by sibs with special needs is highlighted, along with strategies to improve a negative emotional climate at home.
When parents make the decision to adopt transracially, the whole family becomes “different.” Siblings need help preparing for this within their family. They also need tools to deal with
curious or intrusive questions from schoolmates or strangers. They may feel they carry a burden of having to explain why a sibling looks different or has special needs. James shows how to
prepare siblings in age-appropriate ways. Race is not a major focus in this book, but it is covered in the excellent bibliography (which is full of books and online resources related to the immense number
of issues covered).
Drawing on her long experience helping families adopt kids with a history of multiple foster care placements, trauma, abuse, developmental challenges and mental health needs, James gives a lot of
attention to adoptees with special needs, and their impact on siblings. Readers should focus on what applies to their family, and not get bogged down in the detailed (and often tough) case histories.
Brothers and Sisters in Adoption contains much to ponder and re-read at different ages and stages of parenting. Having read many helpful adoption books, if pediatricians, therapists, adoption
staff and parents were to read only one non-clinical book on adoptive parenting issues, I would recommend this one.
Allison Branscombe, a writer and parent educator, lives with her husband and two daughters in Sacramento. Along with Chris Winston, President of KAAN and the parent of two adult Korean born adoptees,
and Beth Hall, Director of PACT, An Adoption Alliance, they will be presenting a workshop on Parenting Strategies at the upcoming KAAN Conference in Denver.
Book is available through Amazon at http://www.amazon.com |
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The economy has been hard on everyone this year. We have twenty slots still remaining and we are not imposing the late fee. You can still register until July 30th.
So get online and register today at www.kaanconference.com
This year's conference, to be held at the Sheraton Denver Hotel in Denver, CO, July 31-August 2, promises the best sessions ever. For example, Carissa Woodwyk, an adult Korean adoptee who is a licensed
marriage and family therapist and has authored the book, "Before You Were Mine," will talk in a keynote address about the impact of relinquishment on adoptees' psyches; an adult adoptee and a relative
by family association will discuss "Family Labels and Language" and talk about what it means to have to explain one's family on a regular basis; and, in an adult-adoptees-only session, adult adoptees
will talk about "Why I Don't Like My Face"--topics around face and body image issues that many adult transracial adoptees face. Adult adoptees will also be able to join together on Friday evening, July
31, for an adult adoptees-and-their-guests-only dinner. The conference remains an extremely reasonably priced event for anyone with experience around Korean adoption. |
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I am looking for my brother. I am an adoptee and so is he. I have minimal information. But it would be appreciated if I could get any useful advise on how to find him..
Thank you Tracy
kidko13@yahoo.com
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Both Tracy and her brother were adopted from Post and SWS - Social Welfare Society. Post might be an old division of SWS - not sure. We can also assume that he stayed at the same orphanage
as Tracy. It’s called the "Father Keane's Home" and was one of the only places that would take mixed-race children during the time.
*First Mother*:
LEE Bo Kyung
She emigrated overseas in 1990 (presumably to the usa).
*Sister*:
Name given to her by birthmother: Lily Ann Lee
Name at orphanage/foster/agency: Lily Ann Lee
Name with adoptive family: Tracy Lee Lumas Name currently: Tracy Lee Odegabaro Tracy is also mixed race (presumably african-american). She was born in Daegu, Kyingsangbuk-do Korea. Currently
living in Ventura California USA. Attached is a picture of her as a baby.
*Brother*:
The brother is a half-brother and is mixed white and Korean. SWS will not release his name or birthdate, but we know he was born circa 1977 and was adopted (presumably to USA) around 7 years
of age, circa 1984.
Tracy is 28 now and the brother would be 32.
*Timeline* (all years and ages are approximate):
1977: brother was born
1981: lily/tracy was born in Daegu and then adopted the same year
1984: brother was adopted at age 7
1990: birthmother emigrated overseas (presumably to u.s.a, but not definite)
If you have any clues for Tracy, please write to kidko13@yahoo.com.
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Experience true Korean culture through hands-on programs in various locations in South Korea. This year is the annual InKAS summer camp's 6th year in its running. Form lifelong friendships with Korean
locals as well as international adoptees from all over the world. After the classes, join Korean young adults to experience Korean life style in Seoul!
We still have a few spots left, so please do not hesitate! Apply now!
Sign up through the InKAS Website at http://www.inkas.or.kr |
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Small grass roots green retail handbag company founded by a fellow Korean Adoptee is seeking interns to support marketing/pr, wholesale sales, grant writing and internet/website management
functions. Candidates must be interested in upcycling, sustainable products and taking a cottage industry to the next level. Additional requirements include:
- Mature, detail-oriented, responsible, responsive, serious, and result-oriented - Able to meet 3 hours/week - Must have access to computer & internet access
If you are interested in this opportunity, please email us your resume. In your email, indicate your current status (i.e., full time student), availability, why you are interested in this internship,
expectations and questions (if any). kristinljordan@yahoo.com
Compensation: This is a non-paid internship, however, will work with you if your college permits credit for internships. Recommendations available for future employment. This is an internship
job Principals only. Recruiters, please don't contact this job poster. Please, no phone calls about this job! Please do not contact job poster about other services, products or commercial interests. |
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A facebook group for Korean adoptees who have experienced undue difficulty accessing their records.
Between 1995-2005, 76,646 adoptees have returned to Korea to search for their natural parents. That's over 61% of all adult adoptees! Only 2,113 (2.7%) have succeeded.
Are these poor rates of success due to our prospects, or due to ADOPTION AGENCY SUCCESS AT BARRING ACCESS TO OUR DOCUMENTS?
We believe it is the latter, and we know from experience that discouraging tactics are employed to withhold records whenever possible.
The Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption protects the identity of adoptees, yet despite there being 78 other member countries, S. Korea has yet to join. Current efforts to prepare for
joining the Hague Convention are inadequate and rely on adoption agency cooperation, with little or no oversight.
The combined voices of the over 70,000 can not be ignored by the Korean government. We want to document our suppression, so future adoptees are not turned away with no clues about their histories
and current adoptees can try again and get the proper respect they deserve and access to documents about their own lives.
If you have experienced ANY DIFFICULTY currently or in the past getting fair access to your records, please join our group and share your experience on our wall.
Please stand up and be counted - and spread the word! Tell your FB friends, other KAD groups, and KAD organizations!
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Aug 1 @ 8pm Hot Tamales Live! The House of Blues - Houston 1204 Caroline St Houston, TX 77002 To buy tickets: http://www.livenation.com
Aug 2 @ 7:30pm Hot Tamales Live! The House of Blues - Dallas 2200 N Lamar St Dallas, TX 75202 To buy tickets: http://www.livenation.com
Aug 7 & 8 @ 8pm The Bull's Head Pub 1441 N Eagle Rd Meridian, ID 83642 208-855-5858
Aug 14 @ 7pm Alum Rock 5th Annual Comedy Fundraiser Mexican Heritage Plaza: 1700 Alum Rock Ave San Jose, CA 95116 Call 408 251-5757 or 408 794-1060 for tickets
Aug 22 @ 8pm Washington State University Compton Union Pullman, WA 99164
Aug 26 @ 8:30pm The Comedy Underground 109 S Washington St Seattle, WA 98104 (206) 628-0303 |
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AK Connection Annual BBQ/Picnic Saturday, August 1 5:00pm - dusk
Brookview Park - Small Shelter Winnetka Ave and Brookview Pkwy Golden Valley, MN Come and join AK Connection for our Annual BBQ / Potluck at Brookview Park in Golden Valley. We will
be grilling as well as providing some Korean food. It is a POTLUCK so please bring a dish or snack to share. BYOB: beer & wine are permitted, but you must be at least 21 to enjoy! Bring a
ball and let's start a friendly game or two!
This event is for adult adoptees, their families, and friends.
Please RSVP on Facebook http://www.facebook.com or to
akconnection.mn@gmail.com |
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The decision to adopt across cultural and racial lines is a lifelong commitment to exploring matters of race, confronting racism in all its forms and constantly developing new skills and awareness.
This is Part A in a series of three 4 hour workshops
Part A covers:
- Myths and Reality
- Fears
- Racism - including how to respond to racism and talking with children about racism
Presenter: Astrid Dabbeni, has led youth adoption support groups, and worked and volunteered for adoption related organizations for over 14 years. Astrid’s life-long interest in adoption is
rooted in her own adoption at the age of four with her older sister from Colombia, South America.
Cost per class- $60 per person $90 per couple. Pre-Registration is required. Download application and additional information from the Adoption Mosaic website www.adoptionmosaic.org or Email Silvia
at info@adoptionmosaic.org
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The 11th Annual KAAN Conference, Extending the Family of Korean Adoption, will be held at the Sheraton Denver Hotel in Denver, Colorado on July 31 - August 2, 2009. To see the complete
program and to register go to www.kaanconference.com
KAAN’s primary project is an annual national conference in a different city each year. This annual coming together allows all attendees to feel part of a national adoption community. In fact conference
attendees come from all over the United States, Canada, Asia, Europe and Australia.
KAAN offers national support and guidance, but the KAAN Conference belongs to the community where it is held. Through the process of hosting a conference, it is hoped that the local organizations
will be strengthened and the local connections among adoptive families, adult adoptees, Koreans, and Korean Americans will be enhanced.
For nine years KAAN has supported community development through its conferences: KAAN Conferences have been held in Los Angeles, California; Hasbrouck Heights, New Jersey; Seattle, Washington; Minneapolis,
Minnesota; Arlington, Virginia; San Francisco, California; Detroit, Michigan; Seoul Korea; Boston, Massachusetts: and Chicago, Illinois. This year’s conference will be held in Denver Colorado.
KAAN is entirely run by volunteers with no paid staff. All funds raised go to support the KAAN Conference. |
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Start Time: Friday, July 31, 2009 at 2:00pm End Time: Sunday, August 2, 2009 at 5:00pm Location: Sogang University City/Town: Seoul, South Korea Phone: 023256585 Email: info@goal.or.kr |
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The Washington State Parks and Recreation Commission Folk Arts in the Parks Program invites the public to attend its second series of afternoon Asian cultural performances at Peace Arch State Park
in Blaine in August. The free outdoor concerts begin at 2 p.m. Sundays in August and celebrate Asian cultures of the Pacific Northwest.
The concerts feature dance and music performers from Korean, Japanese, Filipino and Chinese cultures. The artists’ fees for these events are paid for by an Arts and the American Recovery and
Reinvestment Act “economic stimulus” grant from the National Endowment for the Arts to Northwest Heritage Resources, of Mountlake Terrace.
August 2 Morning Star Korean Cultural Center: This music and dance ensemble from Lynnwood draws from performers of Korean heritage around the Puget Sound region.
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Date: August 6 , 2009
Time: 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m.
Place: IACCenter, 2 Tree Farm Road, Suite A200, Pennington N.J., 08534
This workshop is for you if you are considering adoption and if you find you are getting stuck in your attempts to start the adoption process.
Speaker and Moderator, Joni S. Mantell, LCSW
You will learn why making the emotional decision to adopt is so difficult and how to get yourself unstuck in your family building journey. How to take the first steps toward adoption will be
addressed as well.
Two adoptive parents will present how they were able to make this transition and how they adopted through domestic and international adoption.
Joni S. Mantell, LCSW is a psychotherapist with a specialty in adoption since 1993. She works with all members of the adoption triad, and this helps her to understand adoption from the perspective
of both the child and the parent.
To register go to http://iaccenter.com |
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Don't miss this fantastic opportunity!
2nd Annual Korean Traditional Dance & Music Festival
Date & Time: Saturday, August 8th, 2009, 5 PM Location: Rachel M. Schlesinger Concert Hall and Arts Center, Alexandria Campus of Northern Virginia Community College, 3001 North
Beauregard St., Alexandria, VA Tickets: Adults $10, Seniors and children under 12 $5
Purchase Tickets at http://www.childrenshomeadopt.org
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Take the Embassy Row Tour with Kids and Cultures. This one-day Washington, DC, bus trip includes visits to four embassies with presentations by diplomats from those countries, lunch at an ethnic restaurant,
and other educational activities. http://www.kidsandcultures.com |
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Join us for a potluck picnic and pool party, including Korean food and plenty of fun. Each family is asked to bring a side dish or dessert. We will provide drinks, paper supplies,
and bulgogi. The party will be held at a Mechanicsburg-area home, beginning at 4:00PM; directions to be given once you have registered. To sign up, email us at info@ta-ri.org
or call Stacy Schroeder at 766-6106. If you can bring a canopy-style tent, please let us know. |
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Missionary Photography in Korea: Encountering the West Through Christianity
May 19 - August 14, 2009
Gallery hours:
Monday through Friday: 10:00 AM-5:00 PM
Opening Reception
Tuesday, May 19, 2009 6:00 PM-8:30 PM
The Korea Society Gallery
950 Third Avenue @ 57th Street, 8th Floor (Building entrance on SW corner of Third Avenue and 57th Street)
Free and Open to the Public, but RSVP is requried To RSVP go to: http://www.koreasociety.rsvp3.com
The arrival of the first Western missionaries in Korea in the late 19th century was a pivotal moment in the history of Christianity in Korea and the history of Korea as a whole. The missionaries established
new religious identities and stoked early culture clashes. They also documented their mission and the society around them with early cameras. Missionary Photography in Korea: Encountering the West
Through Christianity—the largest ever show of Korean missionary photographs in the U.S.—features rare images taken by missionaries in Korea between 1890 and 1940.
Taken between the early 1890s and the late 1930s by both Protestant andCatholic missionaries, the photographs—on display along with unique supplementary objects such as an original photo album and
New Year's calendars—offer a singular perspective on life in Korea during times of profound change. They illustrate the forging of contemporary institutions and values in the crucible of encounters
with American Christian missionaries by Koreans.
The impact of early Western contact on Koreans is evident in the telltale signs of new cultural norms and new religious identities, and clues that these new ways were conflicting with long-held traditions.
Less directly evident, but equally important, the images also allow the viewer to surmise how Koreans in turn had a formative impact on the missionaries, which led to intertwined personal histories that
became afoundation for subsequent relations between Korea and the United States.
Drawn from four private collections and six academic archives, the images have been digitally restored and printed in a manner that retains, as far as possible, the archival quality of the images.
This exhibition will be available for loan to universities and other institutions in the U.S. in Fall 2009.
For more information about the exhibit contact Heewon Kim at 212-759-7525, ext. 355 |
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KAMP is a culture camp for adoptive families with Korean children 5-18. Recognizing that adoption is a family issue, KAMP seeks to provide an educational and social
experience not only for Korean adoptees, but also for their parents and siblings.
Kamp 2009: August 5-9
Through a fun-filled camp format, school age Korean adoptees, and their siblings learn about Korean life, language, culture, history, songs, games, cooking, crafts, taekwondo, fan dancing, and pop
culture to gain a basic understanding of their rich Korean heritage. Most importantly, KAMPers spend time with other young adults who share the unique challenge of growing up as a minority and as an adoptee
in this country. There are many opportunities to address adoption and identity matters with these role models and older peers. While children attend KAMP classes, parents are involved in some of these
same experiences through special adult sessions. Parent sessions include guest speakers, panel discussions and cooking classes. (Child-care is available as a co-op effort by parents for children
too young to attend KAMP) The IIA board recruit yearly for college-aged Korean-American Adoptees and Native Koreans. These young adults provide a positive role model for children and parents.
Counselors need to be at least 18 years or older. Opportunities are also available for High School Juniors and Seniors to apply as intern counselors.
KAMP DETAILS
The Annual KAMP/Retreat is held during August at the Riverview Conference Center, 319 North Division Street, Cedar Falls, Iowa.
It is located in a quiet residential area with approximately 50 cabins available for families attending KAMP/RETREAT to rent. All cabins have running water and minimal bathroom facilities.
There are also 28 camping spaces for RVs and tents with water and electricity hook-ups as well as some sites with sewer hook-ups. Shower and bathroom facilities are located next to the camping area.
Riverview
Conference Center has a swimming pool, basketball and volleyball courts, sports field, carpetball and hard surface paths for biking and rollerblading. Cabins are reserved through IIA but fees are paid
directly to RCC upon arrival at KAMP/RETREAT. Truly the best way to experience KAMP/RETREAT is to stay on the grounds but there are motels near by to choose from. For more information and
registration, please visit http://www.iiakampretreat.com.
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Discussion with Frank H. Wu - author "Yellow: Race in America Beyond Black and White"
Still The “Other?”: Public Attitudes Toward Chinese and Asian Americans
Wednesday, August 12th from 6pm – 7:30pm Discussion with Frank H. Wu
Museum of Chinese in America 211-215 Centre Street New York, NY 10013
6 pm Reception 6:30 pm Program 7 pm Q&A $15; student/senior $12; member $10
Advance registration required. Please email education@mocanyc.org for reservation
and ticketing.
The Chinese and Asian American population has been growing rapidly in the U.S., but what is the current status of Chinese and Asian Americans in American society? The Committee of 100's newest survey,
"Still The 'Other?': Public Attitudes Toward Chinese and Asian Americans," provides the latest in-depth look at public opinion of both the U.S. general population and Chinese Americans
on race relations, social equality, immigration issues, and factors impacting public perceptions.
Survey results uncover glaring disparity in perceptions between the general population and Chinese Americans on issues like Asian American loyalty, political power, and equal rights in government,
education, and the workplace. In addition, the perceptions reported by the general population are affected by a lack of knowledge about the Asian American population and a lack of interactions with Asian
Americans.
Please join The Museum of Chinese in America for a lively discussion with Frank H. Wu, author of
Yellow: Race in America Beyond Black and White, on how communities can work together to foster better understanding of Asian American contributions to American society and how individuals
can increase awareness of harmful stereotypes.
Frank H. Wu
, a member of the Committee of 100 and Vice Chair, is the author of
Yellow: Race in America Beyond Black and White. He is a long-time member of the faculty at Howard University, former Dean of Wayne State University Law School, and has taught at Peking University,
George Washington University, the University of Maryland, and Columbia University. Wu serves as a Trustee of Gallaudet University, the only university in the U.S. serving primarily deaf and hard of hearing
students; he became Vice Chair of the Board in 2006. He is on the Board of the Leadership Conference on Civil Rights Education Fund, an elected member of the American Law Institute, and a fellow of the
American Bar Foundation. Wu was honored for leadership in higher education as the recipient of the Chang-Lin Tien Award from the Asian Pacific Fund in 2008. |
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2009 InKAS Summer Camp
InKAS is holding a Summer Camp program for Korean adoptees to experience and learn Korean Culture.
It is our desire to aid in the understanding and experience of the true Korean culture during their visit.
The program is mainly coordinated for overseas Korean adoptees to experience Korean cuisine, custom,
culture and language via opportunities of direct participation and experiences.
InKAS Summer Camp is composed of several hands-on programs. There will be Korean cuisine cooking,
Taekwondo, and other practical classes in several places in South Korea. After the classes, you will have
an opportunity to experience the culture of young Korean people’s lives with young Korean adults.
? About the program
- Korean culture Classes
- Gathering with Korean young adults
- Field Trip
? Program Details: Please indicate which program you are applying for. (July or August)
1. July Program (July 19th Sun to 25th, Sat)
Date
Details
Jul 19, Sun
Check in/Welcoming Party
Jul 20, Mon
Go to South East Province
2:00-4:00: Korean culture activity 1
Jul 21, Tue
9:30-3:00: Korean culture activity 2
3:00-: Free time
Jul 22, Wed
9:30-12:00: Korean culture activity 3
Cruse, Swimming
Jul 23, Thu
Go to Seoul
Free Time
Jul 24, Fri
9:30-3:00: City tour
5:00-6:30 : NANTA performance
7:00: Farewell Party
Jul 25, Sat
Check out
2. August Program (August 23rd Sun to 28th, Sat)
Date
Details
Aug 23, Sun
Check in/Welcoming Party
Aug 24, Mon
Go to South West Province
2:00-4:00: Korean culture activity 1
Aug 25, Tue
9:30-3:00: Korean culture activity 2
3:00-: Free time
Aug 26, Wed
9:30-12:00: Korean culture activity 3
Cruse, Swimming
Aug 27, Thu
Go to Seoul
Free Time
Aug 28, Fri
9:30-3:00: City tour
5:00-6:30 : NANTA performance
7:00: Farewell Party
Aug 29, Sat
Check out
? How to apply
1. Sign-up through the InKAS website and go to the Summer Camp section: Services ->
Culture Camps (http://www.inkas.or.kr)
2. Submit an application form on the page (Please indicate which program you are applying for
(July or August) on Comments area) and upload one page of the adoption paper with
your Korean name and the copy of your passport on "My-page"
? Application due date:
We accept applications form from April 1st.
? Selections:
Overseas Korean adoptees who are over 18 years of age or older will be selected.
First come first served basis.
? Other Information
?Accommodation:
Please check-in to the accommodation by fist day of the Summer Camp at the hotel
(Your stay can be extended at a twin room by request, by paying 80,000 KRW per day to InKAS
?Pick-up service:
InKAS volunteers will be waiting for you at Inchon international airport on the day of your arrival.
Please provide your flight details, once you make a reservation
?Fees:
Free room and board (two people per room) but airfare not included. For questions and applications: http://www.inkas.or.kr
* Schedule is subject to change without notice
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Mark your calendars for Saturday September 5th, from noon to ?
For all members and their friends and relatives.
We'll supply hot dogs, hamburgers, ribs, chips and dips and soda etc and if you want to bring pot luck.... well it will be appreciated.
Rain or shine, big lawn, big screened porch, big inside
Fun, comeraderie, peace and understanding and perhaps silliness.
Bring your guitars
Click here for more info and driving instructions.
http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org
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Where & When:
Kaiser Oakland Medical Center - Mosswood Building 3505 Broadway Street Rm. 1130 A & B Oakland, California
September 12, 2009 9:00am - 4:00pm
True Colors 2 focuses on the life long education of adoptive parents parenting children of color across racial lines and features advanced conversations about race that begin with a foundation that
already acknowledges that racism exists and has a direct impact on ALL of our lives. You must have attended Pact's True Colors I (or demonstrate other substantive education on transracial adoption) to
participate in this workshop. We will highlight hands on internal work with other parents to collaborate and develop parenting strategies.
Featuring the film
Making Whiteness Visible
Featured Speaker
Julia Sudbury
Facilitators
Martha Rynberg Beth Hall
True Colors 2 includes dissection of the politics of race, transracial and international adoption, and becoming a white ally. This workshop is a corrective action to assist participants in understanding
how race impacts transculturally and transracially adopted children as well as their (usually white) parents. We will ask you to dig deeper into your own unexplored racialized thinking and experience.
How do you think of yourselves as white allies to people of color? What does this mean? How does this relate to overcoming the urge to be the 'racism police' or learning how to speaking with, but not
for people of color? We will think specifically about how you operate in the neighborhoods and communities where you and your children reside, and how that translates to supporting your child's self-esteem,
and creating a strong sense of comfort in their own skin as well as membership in your family.
Register at http://www.pactadopt.org |
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Camp Burgess, Sandwich, Cape Cod, MA
Register now for our eighth annual weekend of strengthening and celebrating our Asian community at Camp Burgess, a beautiful retreat center in the pinewoods of Cape Cod.
Participate in cultural activities such as dance, arts and crafts, evening Moon Festival and much more! Families can choose from a variety of events for various age groups. Enjoy traditional camp
activities such as swimming, canoeing, high ropes course, rock wall climbing, archery and an evening campfire.
Arrival time: Friday 5:00 PM. Departure time: Sunday 4:00 PM. Cost includes two nights camp style lodging, 6 meals, camp activities and special programs. Fees are $175 per person. Children under
2 free.
IMPORTANT: Camp has filled to capacity the past few years. Pre-Register now and save your family's space with a $50 non-refundable deposit (balance due August 1, 2009).
Full promotion of the camp will begin next week. You are receiving advanced notice because you have attended camp, or expressed interest in camp.
Asian Camp is an entirely volunteer effort. The camp operates at a deficit each year -- attendance fees do not cover the entire cost of the camp, food, website, speakers and performers.
Major fundraising is done each year to make up the difference.
Please consider becoming a business or individual sponsor of the Asian Camp. In return, you'll receive promotion in emails, on the Camp website, and in Camp materials.
Sponsorship is available at a Platinum Level of $250+, Gold $100+, and Silver $50.
Asian Culture Society of Cape Cod 21 Dundee Circle Harwich, MA 02645
Questions? Curiosities? Please email Jen Huckman emc@cape.com
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The decision to adopt across cultural and racial lines is a lifelong commitment to exploring matters of race, confronting racism in all its forms and constantly developing new skills and awareness.
This is Part B in a series of three 4 hour workshops.
Part B Covers:
Cultural Competence
Development of Racial Identity
Presenter: Astrid Dabbeni, has led youth adoption support groups, and worked and volunteered for adoption related organizations for over 14 years. Astrid’s life-long interest in adoption is rooted
in her own adoption at the age of four with her older sister from Colombia, South America.
Cost per class- $60 per person $90 per couple. Pre-Registration is required. Download application and additional information from the Adoption Mosaic website www.adoptionmosaic.org or Email Silvia
at info@adoptionmosaic.org |
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Crossing the Bridge: From Infertility to Adoption:
Date: October 17, 2009
Time: 8:45 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
Place: Princeton Hyatt, 102 Carnegie Center, Princeton, NJ 08540
This workshop is for you if you are just considering adoption or if you are waiting to adopt. You may also want to bring family members who you would like to get a better understanding of adoption.
Adoption Counselors, Adoptive parents, Birth Parents and Adults who were adopted will share their perspectives on adoption with you.
In this workshop you will learn: What to expect emotionally, how to deal with your own emotions and any issues between yourself and your partner, what the adoption process is really like, what
is like to be a family formed through adoption and how to prepare your friends and family and employer for your adoption.
To register go to: http://iaccenter.com |
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